Monday, October 26, 2009

I am getting pretty regular about only posting once a month I know, but seriously I don't know where the time goes. Before I get the time to post again it's like the month is already gone. So this month we ran around as usual trying to keep up with all we had to get done. October 9th and 10th was my high school 10 yr class reunion. We met at the GS football game on Friday, which was a cold night and it really felt like football weather. Bree sported her adorable cheer leading suit and a really cute mum Mema made for her. She thought she was as big as the other girls there. It was great seeing everyone and then we had a fifth quarter party at the home of Ray and Debbie Carnes. They are always excellent hostess and the gathering was great. Lots of laughs and remembering when until 2:30 am, when we decided to call it a night. Saturday we had scheduled a family picnic in the city park but due to the rain and cold weather we met at Pappadales Restaurant instead. It was a small group for lunch but good company non the less. After lunch we went home for a short nap and then the class of 1999 met at the Chamber Building for a catered BBQ dinner and entertainment. Our very own, Edgar Gonzalez, did a great job at the dj table. We had a great time and it was so nice to see everyone who came out. However, I was reminded just how old I am. 10 yrs..... how have 10 yrs flown by since high school? Where the time went is beyond me.
We celebrated Olivia Paige Tolar's 1st birthday on the 17th. Her actual bday is Oct. 13th but her party was the following Sat. She had such a cute lady bug themed party and seemed to enjoy the whole thing. She was still smiling when we went to leave. What a precious milestone!
This day, Oct. 17th was a day of happiness and sadness and many mixed emotions. At around 5pm Kerry's Grandmother aka Gigi went home to be with our Lord after an extensive battle with cancer. This was our first Grandparent to loose and a tough experience to say the least. Although, we are very sad that she is no longer here in her earthly body, we are rejoicing in knowing she is in Heaven and no longer suffering. Mary Nell Burnett was a very sweet, loving, nurturing Grandmother who loved her family very much and we already miss her dearly. However, we were relieved with how peacefully she passed away with her family at her side and thank God she didn't have to suffer anymore. This experience was very confusing for Bree. Bree has a special place in her heart for all her great grandparents and Gigi was very special to her. Kerry had taken her to see Gigi in the hospital on Thursday and we were just getting out of the car at the Hospice facility when we got the call that she had passed from this life. So, poor Bree was confused when we told her Gigi went to be with Jesus. She didn't understand and thought we had left her at the hospital. It was very sad and difficult to explain to Bree. But she does seem to be doing better with it now. However, Gigi's memory will live on in our hearts forever.
When we loose someone we love we are reminded of how temporary our lives here on this earth are and it helps us to appreciate every moment we have with those we love. I spent the rest of the week trying to love and enjoy every minute of the blessed life I have been given. We often rush through our days and forget how precious every breath we have here on earth truly is. Bree loves to help in the kitchen these days. On a couple of occasions I let her help and we even had some friends over last week for supper and the girls made cookies for dessert. They loved putting chocolate kisses in the middle of the warm, fresh baked cookies. She enjoys helping so much and usually if I am in the kitchen she gets her step stool and comes running to help with whatever I am doing. It is very sweet. Saturday the 24th we spent the day at a fall festival and it was so nice to appreciate the changing season. The weather was beautiful and we enjoyed spending some time outside. That evening we went to dinner with some good friends and celebrated Jennifer Tolar's birthday. I won't mention how old she is....but most people can probably figure it out. We spent the day Sunday enjoying our family time at home and also enjoyed watching the Cowboys win. They sure are fun to watch when they get their act together. Go Cowboys! We had a great weekend!! Hope everyone has a great week and Happy Halloween!